It's hard to find community in a mega church. They offer mom groups like Blessed that get together for park play dates on weekdays when I work, never on the weekend. They offer small home groups but none seem to accommodate 3 small children. The women's Bible study meets 3 times a day but my peer group of mom's meets in the morning, when I'm working.
So when I finally find a calendar event on the weekend I write it on the calendar, because if it's there the family will know to make it a priority. But they don't. Kids act up, husband announces they don't deserve a park day and cookies get put away, unbaked. It rains a slow drizzle rain that says I might stop, I might not. Then we all decide to go anyway, an hour later and the rain comes down even harder. Then the baby cries on the way so we go to the mall instead and I stay in the van to feed the baby, an hour early. We nap because that's just less stressful then walking in the now drizzle to watch kids play in the mall.
Such is the life as a full time working mom.